Does the words below sound familiar to you? If not, read & think about its meaning(s).
Say also don’t want to listen; Listen also don’t know how to do;
Don’t know how to do also don’t want to ask;
Ask but don’t want to do; Do also do it wrongly;
Wrong also don’t want to admit; Admit also don’t want to change;
Change but not happy; Not happy but don’t want to say …
Done ? No ?? Why so slow ….? (^-^)
In a nut shell, this is probably something that your Boss, usually Chinese Tow Kays & Businessmen (I’m being unfair here but what the hell, it’s my opinion) will tell you, but it’s really universal. It can be used by anyone in every aspects of everyday life. Whether is it in politics, work or even by your own parents!
Does those lines really reflects reality ? Everyone seemed to be very enthusiactic about it when it first appears in people’s mailbox. However, the more I observe my surroundings, the more I began to see the irony side of it. The words above are one very selfish & arrogant comment. Let me enlighten you a little about it.
Have you experience the frustrated feelings of being be-little for every single thing that you do & you just want to go berserk & tear everthing apart ? No matter how hard you try but it just seemed that all your efforts are being continuously ridiculed for no apparent reason ? You felt wasted, loss, confuse & didn’t know where or what did you do wrong. You began question yourself. “What did I do wrong ?” “Why the hell did they keep on harping & criticizing my work ?” “Why ?”
You know very well that there is just no answer. The ones harping & criticizing you will NEVER let you know why. That’s because they probably didn’t know what is in the first place. They just dont like you. They just find a need to refuse, reject & criticize you. In another words, you are ALWAYS WRONG, one way or the other. At times, your ideas will be used against you & then you’ll be told “How come you never thought it it?”.
“You’re probably made to feel smal all the time”
Well, fuck these people ! In my opinion, the words above are nothing more than a representation of the mindset of people who are selfis & arrogant. Take a good look at the beginning & ending of the lines. It goes around in circles. Ultimately, if you’re the one at the receiving end of these words, it only means that you’re a person who are unable to learn from mistake, stubborn & refuse to adapt to change. Use it on a child & you’ll probably destroy their future. Use on a colleague & you would have succesfully made new enemies in the office (unless of course, your colleagues are not bright enough to read between the lines) (^^;)
I hated the idea making people around me feels miserable or small. Most of the time, I just keep the thoughts to myself & try to see thing from a more positive side rather than being an outright critic. I just don’t believe in it.
Ok. Done ranting. Probably will add in more occationally.
Btw, credit goes to the owner of the picture above. I just hijacked it for illustration. (^_^)
